Fix remaining review threads on the user alts tab

- Switch to the User Alts tab when it is created, so the first investigate
  click does not open it in the background.
- Treat an empty RespOk as "user not found" and use a generic message for
  error codes, matching what the server actually returns.
- Exclude the depth-0 seed row from the related-account count.
- Guard the reply with the requested user name so a stale response cannot
  overwrite a newer one.
- Move the duplicated formatEpoch body into widgets/utility/epoch_format.h.

cockatrice/src/interface/widgets/utility/epoch_format.h

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+/**
+ * @file epoch_format.h
+ * @brief Shared timestamp formatting for the moderation tables.
+ */
+
+#ifndef EPOCH_FORMAT_H
+#define EPOCH_FORMAT_H
+
+#include <QDateTime>
+#include <QString>
+
+/**
+ * @brief Format a unix timestamp the way the moderation tabs show dates.
+ *
+ * @param ts          Seconds since the epoch; 0 means "unknown".
+ * @param unknownText Label returned for 0, translated by the caller so the
+ *                    translation context stays with the tab.
+ */
+inline QString formatEpochTimestamp(quint64 ts, const QString &unknownText)
+{
+    if (ts == 0) {
+        return unknownText;
+    }
+    return QDateTime::fromSecsSinceEpoch(ts).toLocalTime().toString(QStringLiteral("yyyy-MM-dd HH:mm"));
+}
+
+#endif // EPOCH_FORMAT_H